His and Her Health

I am wondering...
How common is it for women to urinate during clitoral stimulation?
Here are my stats:
I am a healthy 33 year old woman, I enjoy sex, my body lubricates itself VERY well for sex...
HOWEVER: I have never had an orgasm and I think part of the reason most recently is that everytime I am masturbating (or being manually stimulated by a man), I get almost to the point of climax (I think) and I urinate. It is extremely embarrassing, even when I am alone. I have been trying to do research online with regards to the issue, but only find info on female ejaculation. I am really hoping that is what my body is doing, but the liquid that is coming out is warm like urine, clear like urine, and has a urine-y smell to it. The lubrication that my body provides for sex is much more like a gel consistency and a lot of times has a white, cloudy appearance much like male ejaculation. So this new liquid, well, you know what they say... if it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck... is that what they say? I don't know if I should believe I am urinating or not.
Anyhow, I would really like to put my mind at ease and know whether or not this is common, whether or not I should believe it is urine, and if it is how often this happens to women. Can I make it stop?

i literally just had the same thing happen and have many times in the past. i could have written the same post. i am very much looking forward to some insights posted on this. thanks...

If you think you have bladder leakage you should see your GYN who can diagnose and treat the problem.

Are you sure it isn't ejaculation?

no. but how would you tell? It is absolutely the consistency of urine and very warm like urine....

Check out Wikipedia for a great description of female ejaculate.A urologist could tell you if there is any way to stop it.

I am 24 and never had an orgasm. I just bought a vibrator and when I started to experience some intense feelings down there I peed on my bed! I know it was urine because it was yellow and smelled like urine. it was very embarrassing and unexpected so I know how you feel. now every time i am about to try out my new vibrator i go pee beforehand and put a towel under me while i use it. still haven't orgasmed though....

Well good news is this problem is actually very common. I too urinate during stimulation and I have found out the only cause is muscle contractions. The bladder in a muscle, when you tense up it is very common to urinate. In fact the girls that do urinate simply carry them selfs differently sexually. Some women are very tense and some very relaxed during sexual acts.... My advice is to put a towel beneath you, explore and get to know your body. Eventually you will be able to tell when you tense up and you can better control this reaction. Don't worry, the more you worry the more tense you will be therefor increasing your odds of urinating. Good luck ladies.... Oh and if it happens while having intercourse just tell him it's lady cum... He WON'T complain.

Some women do feel like they have to urinate when highly aroused or while orgasming. Its is called female ejaculation and it is not urine!