His and Her Health

i posted this on another page first i have high blood pressure and can feel a great change in my body from the VIAGRA AND IT DOESN'T FEEL GOOD SO , i tell people to be careful with that stuff!I had trouble with ED and taught myself some control now how your going to get the point to him is a different story, leave a note, smile.anyway when i felt myself nearing the point of no return i would start thinking about crazy stuff, maybe a problem at work or something sad or painful, get it?! any way it worked and control grew good luck.
peace

This one I had to come back on for. My husband and I were talking the other night about when he used to take Viagra and I was mentioning about how I had called him to come up and take his little blue pill as it had been 8 days. He then told me what he would not tell me before. He said that sometimes he would get terrible headaches after taking the Viagra. He would take a whole pill.

He has normal to low blood pressure and this may just be a warning but think I should post it. His blood pressure is real low, not like mine.

I know this is an old letter but it seems important that women in this position share their anguish and get really good support. I am a sex therapist and have treated couples like this. Sometimes they split up, but only if they cannot communicate nicely with each other and are unwilling to do the basic exercices to becoming more aware of what goes on when they start having sex, both mentally and physically.

So the best advice of all, is visit a sex therapist. Next best is read a book, but try to avoid the commercial solutions that are marketed through the pharmaceutical companies and sex toy companies.

sharing problems here is one thing people came for. As we know, getiting PE problems are very easy to solve. they have lolts of meds and even books that woudld help cure it...

does it rreally work?

You need to discuss this with a health care provider. Part of the problem could be inflammation and engorgement of the prostate which could cause the rapid ejacuation. One possible treatment could be discussing with a urologist a certain class of drugs called SSRIs could be prescribed to allow for slowing the ejaculation down.

Instead of crying I suggest start acting. You need to find the source of why he is so afraid of not lasting long enough. Is he stressed? Does he have a medical condition? There are some techniques when trying to avoid premature ejaculation: training with a sex toy or have sex and restart the process after he finishes.

Take care