His and Her Health

I went to a Urologist and he prescribed Cialis. He told me any ED drug doesn't
work right away. He told me the process goes like this - In the case of Cialis you take it every 36 hours. After some number of weeks you should see improvement. If you don't you start again with something else. Is this your experience with Cialis or any ED drug for that matter? I have been taking Cialis
for about a week (3 - 20gm tablets). I haven't noticed a difference. I have a high
level of tesosterone for my age. I just had an ultrasound as well. Any thoughts appreciated.

Hi,

Just a quick Hello, I’m 33 and only signed up for this website which I must say is excellent and great place to know your not alone.

Had mild ED for while which I am 99% sure is down to Psychological Issues as once I get into a relationship and learn to relax things get slightly better but as anything is depends how the girl deals with it. My last relationship which has now ended made matters worse for me and I could not perform when was required maybe due arguing more closer to to the end about other things. I am quite a nervous person in general and things do get to me.

Whilst with that GF i was on Levrita 5mg which did work well but planning always had to go into it which I didn’t mind to much as long as worked when needed.

After breaking up with her I read up a bit about the tabs and Cialis seemed the best so got 12 20mg tabs but any time I took them I didn’t notice too much when around girls but to be fair was never intimate with any of them. I then tried Levrita again as I knew these worked before.

Few weeks ago I met a girl out she came back to my mates and as soon as we started kissing I could feel my erection go as hard as rock (taken half 20mg) She then started touching me below and still excellent. We didn’t have sex as was 1st night but I was confident I could have. Moving onto the 3rd night I met her I knew Sex was sort of on the cards through texts we were exchanging.

That night one thing led to another and with Oral sex everything was sweet but 20 secs after starting Sexual Intercourse something ticked in my brain and I went soft. We had both been drinking a bit that night so I jumped off pretending I was going to be sick so she didn’t notice. I went to the bathroom and took the other half and waited a while but nothing at all worked and it seemed like my body was having none of it then and I could feel myself shaking slightly probably due to the build up and annoyance. I ended up not seeing the girl again which I don’t mind as I wasn’t to much into her anyway but I am worried when I am into a girl this is going to be an issue. Feel so depressed these last couple of days since this happened and it’s not like me at all as normally I am on top form with people.

I wish I could take an anti Depressant tablet to take the Anxiety away but I know this can makes matters worse.

Btw I get full wood in the morning and when masturbating so it does work but just not at the right time but I need to be positive and confident that when I do get it back I will be ok again

You might have performance anxiety. Have you considered seeing a sex therapist ? Ask your doctor if there is anything else he/she can do to help you.A change in med. dosage or a different med?.Also on the lighter side you might let your girl friend know that you are so in awe of her you have trouble staying erect but she can help by being sympathetic and encouraging.

According to me, most of the sexual problems occur due to stress as well as anxiety. Even Viagra plays a big part in improving one's sexual life.