I was writing on another forum a few days ago and the topic of sexual positions came up, specifically doggy style. To make a long story short, I mentioned how rarely you see (in porn) when the woman's vaginal walls get dragged out along with the guy's penis on the outstroke.
This is where everyone started being alarmed. I told everyone that all of my exes and my wife did that. They were telling me I needed to have my wife go to her doctor because it sounded like she was having a prolapse. They also explained I wasn't using enough lube (we use tons of lube), her PC muscles were weak (impossible - she's extremely tight and can clamp down tighter when she kegels).
I also mentioned that this phenomenon is always more pronounced as she approaches an orgasm and right after.
I think it's normal and it's never been painful for my wife. Should I take my friends' advice, or just chalk it up to uninformed hysteria?
You should go by how your wife feels about it. Are you sure its her vaginal wall or is it the inner labia that you see. If this worries her then she should see her Gyn.
That's the thing. Neither of us is worried in the least bit, but if this is some indicator of horrible things to come (as expressed by some people I know), I'd rather find out sooner rather than too late.
We will be asking this on her next visit to her gynecologist.... Next year. I figured a forum such as this would have a quick reply.
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